Foreplay

Foreplay is a MUST in sex. It prepares the body to enjoy sexual experiences, and gives each partner a much needed warm up time to get in the mood for something memorable and exciting.
It's always good to take the initiation in sexual matters rather than waiting for your partner to do the same.

1. Get your partner prepared ahead of time; tell them how much you are waiting to just grab them and touch them and do the things you want to do. Just the thoughts will excite your partner!
The stage needs to be set for a fantastic evening. (Or morning, in some cases.) Stimulate all of the senses. Fantasize about sexy scenes, and build your anticipation and creativity.

2. Take a shower, or nice bubble bath (my preference). Cleanliness leads to good sexual performance. A shower builds up your senses, loosens muscles, and naturally increases blood flow which makes you more receptive to touch.

3. Studies show that during foreplay, more attention is given to the face and and upper abdomen. So start at the bottom instead. Try out toes, legs, or inner thighs. Stroking and massaging the inner and outer thigh increases blood flow to the genitals, which of course helps for a better orgasm.

4. Kiss in a very subtle manner, and not just on the lips. Some extremely sensitive and sensual areas are the earlobes, the back of the neck, and the happy trail. This will lead to kisses on some very erotic areas. :)

Kissing and rubbing your bodies is a great start, and an even better combination. You could use chocolate and other aphrodisiacs. The important thing to remember is that foreplay should lead to heightened arousal for sex. Therefore, it should be slow and gradual, completely exploring all of the erogenous zones.

Welcome JonesieLuv!! A L0veBites Guest Blogger!

Hello Everyone!!

I would like to introduce and welcome my dear friend JonesieLuv to L0veBites!! Since I began blogging she is not only a loyal reader but she encouraged and supported me every step of the way! She always has interesting opinions on things and great advice!

I cant wait to read her future posts and I hope you feel the same way too!

Jealousy.... is it ever a good thing?

Hello Everyone!! I am back from my little vacation and I know you all cant wait for today's post.  I had a specific post in mind, but I decided to postpone it because a loyal reader sent me a question, so my readers come first!

"Is it ok to want my girlfriend to feel a little jealous?"

Now before I begin, let me say this yet again, I am not a professional and all of my posts are based SOLELY on my personal opinion... ok, here goes...

I think a little jealousy is a good thing in any relationship, and this is based on my enjoying the feeling i get in a relationship when there is a tiny hint of jealousy.  In long term relationships we all get comfortable, and we expect our partners to love us for who we are, and trust us.  Little by little we worry less and less about the competition, and more and more about kids, bills, and making each other happy as a whole, and worry less about who else is out there. THIS IS GREAT, and its what relationships are all about, but we often forget about that thrill we feel when there's a little innocent jealousy.  Its just the way imitation is the best from of flattery, jealousy in very small doses is a very sweet form of admiration.  When we feel a little jealous, we pull ourselves back out of that comfort zone, we worry a tiny bit, we put that little extra effort into the way we look, the meal we prepare, we kiss a little longer, we hug a little tighter... and the best part is, its like medicine, a little goes a long way.  Use it wisely and the results can be great. 

Here are ways that I've used it with success:

• When someone flirts with me, I choose to TELL my partner all about it
• Don't feel badly about being flattered, when someone complements me, i smile, blush and even giggle, its OKAY..
• I elect NOT to hide innocent male acquaintances, its okay to have friends of the opposite sex, and its important for your partner to see you interact with other men/women.  That way you don't become some extension of himself that never speaks to another man, you are a woman and men interact with you in front of him, and even when he is not around.

In this post, I am not telling anyone to go out and try to make their partner jealous, I'm just saying that i happen to believe that a little jealousy can be healthy. 

I cant wait to hear everyone's thoughts on this!

Going On Vacation

Hello Everyone!! Just a little FYI, I am going on Vacation for a few days! I will be taking my little Niece to DISNEY!! It is her first time and she is thrilled and I am pretty excited too..  I will return later this week and I guarantee that I will have a fantastic post for you when I return!!

My 3 biggest flirting tips (For the Ladies)

So today I was looking at one of my favorite sites sosuave.com and I read an article called 3 Things you must do when talking to women, in this article they suggest that you appear curious, express admiration, and convince her that you are listening to her.  Now, I really liked this article, mainly because I want a man to do that when speaking to me..  This inspired me to share my 3 flirting dating tips:

• Be Visual: I think when speaking to a man, any man, its important to be descriptive. Men like to see things (no big surprise there).  I know that this sounds like a lot of work, but remember, descriptive can be VERY sexy..
• Let your body language speak: Sometimes words are just words, but body language speaks volumes.  Lots of people are good at reading body language, but the majority has difficulty picking up on this, but the best part is that the person that you are speaking to will subliminally pick up your vibe. (Ex. You can say "Its so warm in here", or you can caress your neck and mention the warmth of the room..) Basically, your body language sends out HUGE non-verbal signs and can make the different between looking like a prude or seeming welcoming. 
• Don't be afraid to be sexy: So many women steer clear of being too sexy because they don't want to seem like a slut, but there is something VERY sexy about a man or woman who knows what they want and isn't afraid to share it.  Obviously you don't want to seem perverted or desperate, but you should be yourself and be real.  There is nothing wrong with being confident and proud of your sexuality and stating your likes and dislikes. Not only will you blow him away with your confidence but you're going to leave him with sex on the brain :-)

What are your flirting do's and don'ts? I would love to hear from both the men and women on this one..