5 Interesting things that Turn Men Off!

Hello Everyone,

Today I did some interesting "research" and I am dying to share my results with you...
I asked around to different men and proposed this question "What turns you off sexually about a woman?"
and here are the most popular and interesting answers that I got...

1. Dead in Bed- Men hate a woman who is wack in bed... theres nothing worse that having sex with a woman whose body is limp and seems distant.  This shouldn't come as a surprise, as a woman, we don't want to be intimate with a man who isn't passionate about whats happening, so why would it be any different for a man? Men want a woman who is passionate and full of "fire", she should be totally present, and take lots of initiative, aggressive even!
2. Poor Grooming - This was the second biggest complaint - Basically, say no to bushy pubes! No one wants to dig through a Forrest of hair to find the goods, so keep it trimmed, shaved, or waxed. Its sexier and cleaner and nothing is sexier than being clean!! Ladies, keep this in mind, when you are trimmed, your man gets a better view, and we all know how visual men are!

3. Worn Out Panties - It shocked me that so many women that I know thought that their men didn't care about the type/condition of their panties... I understand that girls want to be comfortable, but there are VERY sexy panties out there that are made of breathable cotton materials that are still extremely sexy. Why wear underwear with your man that you have been with for a while that you wouldn't wear on "opening night" with a new man?? Think of your panties as the "gift wrapping", and the kitty as the "gift", it should be pretty, clean, inviting, and welcoming.. get rid of the holey, worn out, stretched out, ripped elastic, seen better days panties at the bottom of your drawer... NO ONE wants to see that...
4. Vaginal Dryness - Whether you have a medical condition, are going through menopause, or are just not turned on, Vaginal Dryness is a HUGE turnoff.  Like I mention on my previous post, wetter is better, and if you are dry, you have options... Get some replens, its a product sold to re-hydrate the vagina, designed for women with medical related dryness, or get some LUBE... Having sex with a dry women is the equivalent of fucking a guy who is soft, its difficult to do, and it makes you wonder if they are turned on... so get wet ladies! 

5. Strange Odors - This is no surprise... men are turned off my women who smell, any kind of negative smell is a sexual turn off... I often hear women say that they find it very sexy when their man smells a little sweaty, but I NEVER hear men say that.. Men often hold their women to unrealistic standards, but that's just the way they are programmed and smells are part of that issue.  If you are clean and well groomed then this will all fall into place and this shouldn't be an issue at all, all your body smells should be positive and pheromone packed!!

What are your thoughts??

My 3 biggest flirting tips (For the Ladies)

So today I was looking at one of my favorite sites sosuave.com and I read an article called 3 Things you must do when talking to women, in this article they suggest that you appear curious, express admiration, and convince her that you are listening to her.  Now, I really liked this article, mainly because I want a man to do that when speaking to me..  This inspired me to share my 3 flirting dating tips:

• Be Visual: I think when speaking to a man, any man, its important to be descriptive. Men like to see things (no big surprise there).  I know that this sounds like a lot of work, but remember, descriptive can be VERY sexy..
• Let your body language speak: Sometimes words are just words, but body language speaks volumes.  Lots of people are good at reading body language, but the majority has difficulty picking up on this, but the best part is that the person that you are speaking to will subliminally pick up your vibe. (Ex. You can say "Its so warm in here", or you can caress your neck and mention the warmth of the room..) Basically, your body language sends out HUGE non-verbal signs and can make the different between looking like a prude or seeming welcoming. 
• Don't be afraid to be sexy: So many women steer clear of being too sexy because they don't want to seem like a slut, but there is something VERY sexy about a man or woman who knows what they want and isn't afraid to share it.  Obviously you don't want to seem perverted or desperate, but you should be yourself and be real.  There is nothing wrong with being confident and proud of your sexuality and stating your likes and dislikes. Not only will you blow him away with your confidence but you're going to leave him with sex on the brain :-)

What are your flirting do's and don'ts? I would love to hear from both the men and women on this one..