Should men Shave??

Lets face it, its 2011 and almost every woman does some sort of pubic grooming, but what about our men?

A reader emailed me and told me that she's been with her boyfriend for over a year and she always shaves and recently began waxing and he boyfriend has never shaved or even trimmed for her. She asked me if its common and how she could get him to groom a little more.

The sad truth is, many men don't feel the need to shave or trim their pubic areas.  Society has created this stereotype that women should be well groomed, whether that be shaved, waxed, or trimmed, at all times, and that men can be hairy beasts.  Personally, I think men should shave or at least trim their pubes.  I wouldn't expect a man to go get a "Brazilian" but at least try to clean up the bush if you expect me to be poking around down there.  There are some men out there that have taken a cue from all that porn they watch and have decided to shave and even use hair remover to go totally bare, which is awesome, but not every guy out there is that considerate.

My advice to the men out there is this, "If your woman shaves, waxes, etc, then be considerate and at least trim and consider shaving for her. No one wants to head south and choke themselves on a Brillo pad."

My advice to the women out there is even simpler, "Ask him to shave", chances are he never even thought about it, so before your blame him for not doing it, bring it to his attention.  You might be surprised at his willingness to please you in the sack, even if it means taking a razor to his... :-)

5 Response to Should men Shave??

January 16, 2011 at 6:36 PM

I see nothing wrong with a man shaving. I'm not sure how I'd feel about him becoming completely bald, but trimming is ok. I do think they should be more considerate when it comes to shaving, b/c they definitely have a lot to say about us.

January 16, 2011 at 8:35 PM

Im going to keep it simple Im a clean cut dude from head to toe I like to keep myself groomed and if having a giant bush makes you feel like more of a man consider this hair especially pubic hair adsorbs order along with other germs so consider that this is what your girl is smashing her face into ever time she goes down on you. You dont have to shave it all off but trim it down put it like this if you can catch it with a comb then you need to trim it down.. consider it a caesar for your pleasure stick..Oh and a bonus keep your nuts as smooth a eggs she'll love you for it trust me...

January 23, 2011 at 9:10 AM

@ Jonesie - I agree, totally bare isn't required but I like a man who is well groomed.. mainly because its considerate, why should I have to go bathtub acrobatics to be bare for a man who leaves his crotch to become a forest?

@Jeremy - I agree, if u can catch it with a comb, its too long... lol

January 24, 2011 at 3:54 PM

Hey, great blog. Been reading since the passion party. First time commenting. I don't know why this is even an issue. Men should groom. Actually, I know why it's an issue. We, as a society don't talk to our partners(honestly) about what we like and don't like sexually. If you didn't like bowling, you would be quick to tell your potential date. I don't like bowling.
Believe me, if most women said "I like guys who dye their Pubes pink". The majority of males would get pink highlights in the hopes of getting some loving. This is one of the main reason us guys even shower. :0)

January 24, 2011 at 4:12 PM

@Lendell - Great to know that I've recruited you as a reader! I appreciate all of your support! I agree and I think your comment was right on the ball! Women often neglect to tell the men in their lives what their likes and dislikes in bed are... we should speak up a little more, but I personally think that grooming should be done not only for me, but for the man himself...

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