Eat Out.. the basics

There is very little mystery about a penis, its self explanatory and any woman with common sense and a little spit can figure out how to give head... or so I've been told.. but a woman's body is a little more complex and its not quite as easy for men to provide GOOD HEAD..

Oral sex performed on a female is known as cunnilingus and has been around for many years.  It was once thought of as a taboo act but has now become more popular and mainstream.

First let me begin by explaining that there are two types of women. There's the type that love getting head, and they type that never got good head.  The reason i say this is because if done correctly, whats not to love? 

In order to provide good head, you need to know the ins and outs of female anatomy.  Because men are very visual thinkers, I have a diagram. Basically you need to find the clitoris.  If you cant find her clit, please stop reading.. there's no help for you.

First, here are my warnings... I am not a man, this is written from the prospective of a woman.  I am speaking from personal experience, and a collaboration or first hand testimonies and actual research. This is in no way directed toward anyone or intended to offend anyone.

Here are my tips and suggestions:

1. Did you know that 80% of women cannot achieve an orgasm during sex unless they are on top? Those numbers don't surprise me at all because for most women, its all about the CLIT, so my first piece of advice is to pay most of your attention to that area. 
2. Start of slowly, the clitoris is a very sensitive area with a lot of nerve endings, so don't go burying your face in it like its a peach, start with your hands, survey the area and then begin licking gently. After a few minutes, she will be warmed up enough for you to dig in.
3. Leave your tongue and jaw soft and relaxed to avoid cramping, the last thing you need is to tire yourself out before she has even realized whats happening.
4. Don't neglect the rest of her body. Just because you are focusing on one area, it doesn't mean you should neglect the rest of her.  Lick all the surrounding areas and keep this in mind, Jane Austen once said "A good lovers hands never stop moving", foreplay plays a huge part in this and its important to remember that you are pleasing her whole body. Her thighs, breasts, stomach, every part of her body is waiting to be touched.
5. Its okay to enter the vagina with your tongue, its a sensitive area and it feels good on some women, but don't try to initiate tongue intercourse, the chances of providing her any kind of mind blowing pleasure out of that are slim to none. Its a great way to mix it up and add a little diversity but please don't over do it.  There's nothing worse than laying there while someone tried to literally have sex with their tongue... seriously... its awful...

6. Don't use the ABC technique.. its a popular misconception and i have heard men swear by it, but I just think its too much of a distraction.. there shouldn't be a rigid method, you should be enjoying this and so should your partner. 
7.  Don't let it get boring, use licking, sucking, and even soft nibbling through your lips to keep it exciting and add variety. Enjoy it and have fun with it and make sure she knows that your enjoying it every step of the way, be vocal, tell her she tastes great. 
8. Feel free to use your hands. Using your hands is not a bad idea, just don't be to rough, or try to penetrate her until she is well lubricated.  Remember this is not all about penetration, keep it minimal and see if she is enjoying it, its different for all women.
9. Keep a steady pace, women like rhythmical stimulation. It doesn't have to be really fast, just constant.  Follow her body and you will pick up on the subtle movement of her body. 
10. My last main tip is to play around with positions. The basic missionary style position works great but feel free to play around, everyone knows about the good ole 69, but maybe have her on all fours like you would doggie style, or lay back and have her sit over you, find what works good for you and experiment to find what you both enjoy and are comfortable with.

Now on this topic, I have tons more to say but as always, I don't want to end up writing a novel here... so what are your thoughts?